I would rather be a conscious wrongdoer than a mindless saint. - Habeeb Akande
Forgiveness is created by the restitution of the abuser; of the wrongdoer. It is not something to be squeeeeeezed out of the victim in a further act of conscience-corrupting abuse. - Stefan Molyneux
The sinners sins against himself; the wrongdoer wrongs himself, becoming the worse by his own action.